All I can come up with is what I came across today in reading.
. ."there are Two types of people: 'enlarged souls' who live life with faith-filled optimism and "shriveled souls' who let themselves become embittered and withered by life's hardships." Paul Borthwick "nine suggestions to avoid the 'shriveled soul syndrome': Avoid gossip, Release bitterness, Take risks, Trust, Don't live for 'stuff', Master your appetites, Grow deep, Be generous, Think GLOBALLY . . . follow the Lord of the Universe"- which to me (Ana-Maria) IS in Jesus Christ.
What king of person is it going to be then?!!!